Are you tired of all the preparatory work that you often need to go through to get a woman turned on enough to want to have sex with you? Unfortunately, some women require a little extra effort to get them turned on for sex.
If you are desperate to have sex with a woman you are infatuated with, but she is slow to respond to your advances, then there are some easy techniques you can use to get her primed and ready to fire up
If we are dealing with a woman afflicted with frigidity or some other deep-seated psychological issues, then perhaps she needs some professional help to get her sex drive back in order. However, if she is a relatively normal woman but playing hard to get, here are three great tips to get the action going quicker.
1. Wining and Dining
Women these days are more and more getting into fine foods. And a lot of these have what is known as "aphrodisiac" properties. In other words, the content of the foods have elements in them that are thought to increase a person's desire for sex. These work on men and women to varying degrees, and for different reasons. Some foods actually stimulate the flow of blood to the genital areas, increase sperm count etc. Others are visually exciting for women (bananas and phallic shaped foods). Some of the better known ones are oysters, mangoes, avocados, chocolate and honey.
Also, if food is consumed with the fingers rather than with knives and forks, this also adds an element of sensuality to the dining experience. And, finally, make sure she has a few glasses of red or white wine, as both of these alcoholic drinks are charged with desire-inducing chemicals. Just be sure not to go overboard with the alcohol.
2. Creams and ointments
Most sex shops - offline and online - sell a range of oils and creams containing small amounts of menthol, eucalyptus and/or other compounds that rub directly into the clitoris to stimulate blood flow around the genital area. These sometimes create a tingly effect and also increase the amount of natural lubrication in a woman's vagina. All of these things are certainly going to make her more inclined to rip your clothes off and jump on you for a bumpy ride. You can also try rubbing it on your penis to show her that there is nothing to worry about.
3. Back rubs
There is a t-shirt that pregnant women can wear that has written on the tummy area "All Mommy Wanted Was a Back Rub". Women love massages, back rubs and all sorts of gentle physical stimulation that will eventually lead to sex. For guys, it's usually about ejaculating within a certain time frame - not too soon to be "premature", and not too long because they want to get off. But for women, sex is often a complete "experience", and something not to be hurried, but to be savored. Therefore, it is a great idea for guys to get a little experience in massaging their women, because this relaxes them and puts them in a great frame of mind for some mind-blowing sex as your reward.
Before you start your massage, make sure you have set the mood with a darkened room, and perhaps some scented candles, incense or oils burning to get her sense of smell activated. Remember, if you can make this a whole body experience, she will absolutely love you for it.
Gently knead the lower parts of her back and work your way up her spine, giving special attention to the shoulders and the back of her neck. It is also a great idea to listen to her cues - most women will tell you exactly which of her body parts need the most attention.